María Francisca Perelló, known affectionately as Mery or Xisca to close friends, has always been the quiet pillar beside one of tennis’s greatest legends. For nearly two decades, she stood by Rafael Nadal through injuries, triumphs, and the relentless pressure of professional sport. Yet behind the smiles at award ceremonies and the occasional court-side appearances, their private world carried burdens that few could imagine.

In a deeply emotional and unexpected interview released this week, Mery broke her long-standing silence. Sitting in their family home in Mallorca, with tears in her eyes, she opened up about the hidden challenges of loving and supporting a man whose life was defined by intense competition and global fame. “The whole world needs to know what it really meant to be there every day,” she said, her voice trembling.
Mery revealed that more than a decade ago, during one of Rafa’s most physically demanding periods, she received a message that still haunts her. It was a simple text from Rafa after a particularly brutal loss and subsequent injury flare-up. The words read: “I don’t know if I can keep doing this to you.
You deserve someone who can be present, not someone always broken or away.” She kept that message saved on an old phone for years, along with a candid photo of the two of them taken during a quiet moment in Mallorca when Rafa was recovering from knee problems.
The public image of their relationship was one of perfect stability. They met as teenagers — she was 17, he was 19 — and began dating in 2005. For 14 years they kept their romance largely private, only going public in 2007. Their wedding in October 2019 at the historic La Fortaleza castle in Mallorca was elegant and intimate, attended by close family and friends. In 2022 they welcomed their first son, Rafael Jr., and in 2025 their second child, Miquel. To the outside world, it looked like a fairytale of childhood sweethearts who grew up together.
But Mery described a reality far more complicated. “People saw the trophies and the celebrations, but they didn’t see the nights when Rafa could barely walk after matches, the times he questioned if his body would allow him to continue, or the moments when our plans as a couple had to be cancelled because of another surgery or rehabilitation period,” she explained.

She spoke about the isolation that came with supporting a top athlete. While Rafa traveled the world chasing Grand Slams, Mery often stayed behind in Mallorca. She once explained in a rare early interview that following him everywhere would “asphyxiate” both of them. Instead, she built her own life, working quietly and maintaining a low profile. Yet this choice meant she faced many difficult moments alone — the anxiety of watching him push his body to the limit, the fear during serious injuries, and the emotional weight of being the steady one when he returned home exhausted or defeated.
The haunting words from that old message came during a low point around 2012-2014, when Nadal was battling recurring knee and back issues. Mery recalled feeling torn between encouraging him to keep fighting for his dreams and wanting to protect their young relationship from the constant strain. “He felt guilty for the sacrifices I was making. I told him I chose this life with him, but there were days when silence was the only way to hold everything together,” she admitted.
Sharing the old message and the faded photo during the interview visibly moved her. The photo shows a much younger couple sitting on a bench overlooking the sea in Mallorca, Rafa with a bandaged knee and Mery resting her head on his shoulder. “I kept these because they reminded me of why we fought so hard. Not for the fame, but for the love that existed when no cameras were around,” she said.
Fans around the world reacted with shock and empathy. Many had always admired the couple’s privacy and perceived strength, assuming their relationship was effortless. Social media filled with messages of support, with some expressing surprise that Mery had carried these emotions silently for so long. Family members on both sides were reportedly caught off guard by the depth of her revelations, although close friends knew she had shouldered much of the unseen burden.
Rafa himself has spoken sparingly about their personal life, often crediting Mery as his anchor. After his retirement from professional tennis, he has shared more family moments, including recent trips with their children. However, Mery’s decision to speak now seems to stem from a desire for honesty as they enter a new chapter of life away from the tour.
She emphasized that despite the difficulties, their bond grew stronger through the challenges. “There were times I felt invisible to the world, but I was never invisible to him. We learned to communicate without words during the toughest periods,” she reflected.
The interview has sparked widespread discussion about the sacrifices partners of elite athletes make. Mery’s story highlights how the glamour of professional sport often hides the emotional and physical toll on relationships. She hopes her words will help others in similar situations feel less alone.
Throughout her account, Mery remained graceful and never spoke negatively about Rafa. Instead, she portrayed him as a man of incredible discipline and heart who always tried to shield her from the harshest parts of his career. “He is the most resilient person I know, but even the strongest need someone to lean on when the lights go off,” she added softly.

As Nadal transitions fully into retirement and family life, Mery’s tearful revelations offer a rare glimpse into the real story behind one of tennis’s most enduring couples. The old message and photo she shared serve as powerful symbols of resilience, love, and the quiet strength required to stand beside greatness.
Fans who once only saw the champion on court now see the human side of the journey — the doubts, the pain, the unwavering support, and the deep love that survived it all. Mery’s courage in finally speaking out has resonated deeply, reminding everyone that even the most celebrated relationships carry private battles fought far from the spotlight.
In the end, her message was one of gratitude and hope. “We built our life together through both the brightest and darkest moments. I wouldn’t change the path, but the world should know it wasn’t always easy. Love like ours requires silence sometimes, but also the bravery to speak when the time feels right.”
Mery Perelló’s emotional confession has humanized the Nadal legacy even further. After years of protecting their privacy, she has chosen transparency, showing that behind every legendary athlete stands a partner whose strength often goes unseen.